1. Well,
for those of you who follow my other blog (the one I actually write on), you might have noticed that
I’ve been growing more casual and sarcastic (or do I repeat myself?).
That’s a feature, not a bug. I’ve decided to embrace my some-what
abrasive, introverted personality and just kinda run with it. There are a
number of reasons why, most revolving around the fact that trying to
hide or subsume it doesn’t actually seem to have helped much in the ol’
socialization department, so why bother?
2. One
of the nice things I’ve been noticing about Online Dating is that it’s
kinda forcing me to put myself forward, whether because it’s really hard
to get in touch with anyone (I confess; I tried with one girl three
times without getting a peep in response. Might have been rude, but I
had to consider: possibility of someone I’ll never meet having a low
opinion of me that she’ll quickly forget all about versus…well, let’s
just say it wasn’t even close), or just because I’ve been hanging out on
the forums and having people laugh at my wry comments. A little
positive reinforcement goes a long way.
3. By the way, sometimes I wonder whether I’m being too picky with the dating thing. Then I think; ‘well, what the heck should I be picky about if not this?’ So, yeah, I’m going in with high standards; not so much anything specific
(beyond religious/political agreement) as that I’m looking for someone
who stands out to me somehow as being particularly unique or smart or
quirky. And if she happens to also be a petite brunette with glasses,
well so much the better.
4. So, I’m getting down to the wire with Chronicles of Hendricks.
Let me explain how I’m working: I pretty much just write whatever scene
I feel like, but there’s a ‘main thrust’ of the story, which means a
more-or-less complete block of text starting from the beginning. At the
moment, the whole book largely consists of three big chunks; the main
thrust, another from slightly later on, and the ending. In other words,
it’s actually coalescing into a single, solid whole. Do you remember
when the T-1000 got shattered at the end of T2, and then the
droplets all came together until it reformed itself? That’s kind of what
my writing technique looks like. Right now, it is finally assuming a
more or less human form.
5. Okay,
the heck with analogies. The point is that I have set myself a final
deadline to have the whole thing done (or at least, in a presentable
form) by the 23rd of August, at which point I will begin
posting it in serial form at a private blog that I will set up for the
purpose. More information on that as we get closer.
6. After having deleted Minecraft
for the third time (the thing soaks up time like a vacuum cleaner), I
decided last weekend to reinstall it, though with strict limitations
(honestly, writing and Online Dating are usually more fun anyway, but
sometimes you just need to turn off the brain). Mostly it’s because I’ve
found that it’s a great way to listen to audio books when you’re
not driving; you just turn off the background music and it gives you
something to do during the long, long hours of Nicholas Nickelby. It’s surprisingly easy to pay attention to both at the same time, and it makes you feel like you’ve actually done something worthwhile while you were lost underground hunting for diamonds.
7. On
Tuesday of this week I walked to and from work (roughly three miles one
way), something I’ve been meaning to do all summer. On the way there I
worked out a number of troublesome plotting problems and came up with a
lot of great ideas. On the way back I was mostly saying Army cadences to
myself (they really do work, by the way). I don’t know whether that was
because I was tired after a long day at work or because the route I
took back (I took different routes to and from to see which works
better) was a lot longer, less direct, and hence tiring. Incidentally,
my legs were incredibly stiff and sore all evening after that. Can’t wait to try it again next week!
Keep your standards high with the online dating! I have friends who have met and married WONDERFUL people that way, but not without being VERY patient. Good job with the writing - I've had to take all games off my computer as well to boost productivity. Some of the folks in my writing group swear by "write or die", but that just sounds stressful to me :/
ReplyDeleteYeah, my brother does "write or die," but I just can't be bothered to use anything other than Word. It doesn't seem worth it.
DeleteThanks for the encouragement!